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transgenderpolls · 2 days
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that-bisexual · 1 day
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Straight cisgender people will go "Why don't we get pride?? We're unique too!!"
Yeah but have you ever had to look up if it's illegal to go on your vacation trip just because of who you love?
Were you not allowed to marry the person you love years ago?
Have looked at the we have the right to refuse service to anyone sign and get nervous?
Are you being discriminated against even in you own community because you don't want to love (aro/aces deserve double pride or smth idk)
Have you been denied by a doctor because you're trans and it's 'too complicated'?
Are cishet people being harassed and murdered because they're cishet?
We've fought for our place and we're still fighting. When you have to do that then you can have pride.
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genderqueerdykes · 2 days
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there really is a cultural pressure for transmascs & men to detransition, and it comes from all sides. it comes from the queer community too, not just terfs and cishet transphobes.
it took me a while to realize why transphobic people and transandrophobic queers utterly despise trans guys & mascs who are over the age of like 25- it's because it pisses them right off that we've resisted their attempts to make us detransition. it makes them so angry to see they were unable to groom that person into a life of self-shame and repression. it really seems like MOST people believe that trans men will just detransition eventually in life? people NEVER think about older trans men, only teenage trans boys and trans men in their very early twenties.
when i was involved with my local punk scene i was addressed with condescension, almost everyone around me didn't accept transmasculinity as a legitimate identity and thought that we would've transitioned by now in life. i encountered folks who would talk about transmasculinity with subtle disgust that made me feel like i was doing something wrong, and people who expressed overt disgust, saying in plain english that they were disgusted by breasts and vaginas because they were gay men. all along the way i was literally mocked for not having a penis, and one of my roommates started treating me differently once they found out i didn't have one (because they were attracted to me)
i've been on T for 9 years, and been out as a trans man for a bit longer than that, and i noticed as i've aged i've also attracted a lot of folks who have tried to deter me from identifying as a trans man, either through directly telling me that trans men are inherently dangerous, or by implying that women or another gender are safer, quieter, calmer, "less traumatizing to be around," etc. one of my exes told me they were terrified to date me (despite literally going out of their way to do so for over half a year) because they were scared i would be transphobic to them because i'm a transmasculine lesbian.
i received pressure from online friends to either detransition and become an intersex butch woman, or to something feminine adjacent or nonbinary. for years i dealt with a few friends who kept subtly hinting that i should stop identifying as a trans man or trans masc because of how awful transmascs are- going as far as to sending me screenshots of transmascs speaking, complaining about them and calling them whiny, annoying. talking about how all transmascs are entitled, how all transmascs take things too personally, how we complain too much, and so on.
people make no effort to make space for transmascs and men. i met 0 transmascs in my local punk community that i was able to stay in contact with. none. i met a few in passing but none that actually were introduced to me in a capacity where i could actually try to befriend them. it really felt like other punks in the scene were desperately trying to keep the transmascs apart at times. excuses were made as to why i couldn't hang out with other transmascs i liked, but i was constantly being forced to befriend transphobic cis gay men and transandrophobic transfemmes who outwardly expressed hatred and disgust of us. it really felt like it was on purpose... almost as if other members of this community wanted our attention, but never wanted us to give each other attention or a sense of community. like we were objects, not people to be included in the community for real. satellite friends, if you will.
i'll be honest with you. i was at my lowest at this point. i realized i wasn't just a trans man and that i'm a genderqueer person who experiences multiple genders, including womanhood and an "other" gender, which was great. however now i was being forced to completely stuff down being a man for the sake of other people. instead of folks telling me they'd rather not hang out with transmascs, folks rather just attempted to guilt me for identifying as such in the hopes i'd stop identifying that way. i was being told daily that trans men and mascs are inherently violent and terrible to be around. i was in discord servers where transmascs were being kicked constantly for getting even slightly upset about transandrophobia, or being unfairly targeted by staff.
it's violence, but nobody wants to call it that. i pulled myself out of there and am now able to contact other transmascs and trans men who are proud of who they are and have elevated me back into a headspace where it's okay to truly be myself. just keep in mind that if you feel like you're in that situation, you're not alone. people who attempt to groom others are often very subtle it's not always up front. they will start slipping in hateful sentiments very slowly and make you feel like maybe they're the ones who are actually right.
it feels good to be an almost 32 year old trans guy. there's nothing to be ashamed about there. people project their feelings on to my gender and that has nothing to do with me. it has nothing to do with you, either. people will just project on to you for whatever reason- hatred is usually the motivator there. if you encounter folks who keep trying to badger you out of identifying as your gender, no matter who you are, transmasc, transfemme, transneutral, trans anything- they are not good for you. they are not your friends. they do not accept you as you are and you deserve so much better.
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ineffable-ezra · 3 days
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PLEASE RB FOR BIGGER SAMPLE SIZE
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scoutshorror · 2 days
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🖤 i just wanna be your sweetheart,
fucking come here, give me your heart 🖤
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gokbukethings · 2 days
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"What's your gender and sexuality?" Whatever pisses you off more
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illustoryart · 1 day
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Today is International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia.
We've come from a country where being queer and not keeping it secret makes you a terrorist.
I'm not joking. Currently in Russia demonstration of any LGBTQ+ symbols or even talking about it in a positive way is extremism. Queer people are being prosecuted for just being themselves, they are forced to leave the country or undergo a psychiatric treatment. How many places on Earth are like this or even worse?
This is why it's so important to speak loud and clear against homophobia, biphobia and transphobia.
Because not all of us have this chance.
Because so many queer voices are currently silenced.
🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️‍🩹
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alienbycomics · 1 day
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Alienby Comics
A list of all my comics on Tumblr to date!
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Meeting My Past Selves
In Full Swing – Spider Gwen comic
Can’t Go Back – Spider-Gwen comic
Ready to Stand – Little Mermaid comic
Awakening – Legend of Zelda comic
Gendered Interests
Futures
Inner Demons
Close to Home
Progress Report
Alien Enby
Trans Jesus
Jesus and Gender Non-Conformity in Christian Art (supplementary post)
Dream Prom Dress
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ohheyitsjustbear · 2 days
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The lighting in my room is pretty good sometimes
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Tips ♡ Treats
Reblogs appreciated, keep comments in the tags unless we're mutuals 🩷 (he/they)
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liminityy · 3 days
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masculine trans women 🤝 feminine trans men
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transgenderpolls · 3 days
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genocidecomics · 3 days
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No because now that it's confirmed that Morph LOVES Logan romantically??????
Guys I will NEVER shut up about this I am never getting over this
When the series started and I found out Morph was nonbinary, I felt such a warmth in my chest bc holy shit!!! There I am!!! Morph is there and they represent me?!! Like I was so excited!?
Then I kept joking about them and Logan clearly being together or in love, but I imagined it'd never happen. Especially not with a NB person and a manly man like Logan. Because that has queer implications!!!!!!!
And then Morph said it.
"She can't say it, but I can. I love you, Logan. Stay with me."
I screamed so loud I couldn't believe my eyes. But I still doubted. They might spin it into "they're just best friends who like being extremely queer"
But then I saw the tweets from DeMayo.
Guys it just makes me want to cry that it feels like this is my first time seeing a nonbinary character (especially an amab/masc leaning one) show romantic interest for another male character on screen
I see myself in Morph so bad, it made me feel so seen. Not to mention I'm so obsessed with Logan guys I swear they wrote this scene for me.
I love Morph so much, they mean the literal world to me, I am so happy to see a nonbinary character on screen and to see and hear other characters acknowledge their identity, using their pronouns, respecting them!?
I wish Morph had more screen time/scenes this season. I hope we get more of them in the second season.
Fanfic writers PLEASEEEEEEE come through I need you all firing on all gears I need to drown in this feeling.
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zombie-ghost · 24 hours
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I NEED more aro and non binary songs/coded songs, ones that give off the same vibe as romance is boring by Los Campesinos or I/me/myself by Will Wood
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boob-gremlin · 22 hours
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Hey, so I’ve been seeing quite a few of those posts that are something along the lines of: “if I get x notes I’ll come out to my homophobic/transphobic/bigoted in some way parents/family/friends/etc”
PLEASE. DO NOT COME OUT UNLESS YOU KNOW OR ARE DECENTLY SURE YOUR FAMILY/FRIENDS/ETC ARE SUPPORTIVE AND THAT YOU WILL BE SAFE.
This is for the best. Put your safety over your wanting to be out. As someone who came out because they felt obligated to in a not-so-safe home environment, don’t do it unless you’re sure you’ll be safe and supported. I (and many other folks) want the best for you.
Stay safe out there, and good luck. I wish you the best.
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acesentialsketches · 12 hours
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I had a dream that I wore this frilly black goth-like dress that was almost wedding gown-like, and I was actually rocking it. Dream took place in a con too.
Not quite what was in my dream but I'm happy with it. Honestly the first drawing I've been happy with in a long time.
Took a lot of cues from Yor Forger's outfit, particularly the red and black color scheme.
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raayllum · 1 day
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Trans and nonbinary characters in The Dragon Prince / The Mystery of Aaravos!
Terry (he/him), an Earthblood elf and main character from S4 onwards who is transgender. He has a coming out scene and is dating another main character, Claudia (she/her). He has a sunny and easygoing disposition but can sometimes be a bit too supportive/accepting of people's darker sides than he should be.
Kazi (they/them), a Sunfire sign language interpreter with a passion for research and linguistics. They work for the royal family and sub in as an interpreter for Amaya when her personal attendant isn't there.
The Merciful One (they/them), a mysterious figure with an unknown but seemingly sympathetic connection to Aaravos, at least on their end. They are the only other Startouch elf we know of at this point, as their kind are incredibly rare and not much is known about them.
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