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halogen2 · 15 days
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Black and white photographs of trans man Rupert Raj (circa 1970s) posing shirtless in bed (from the digital transgender archive)
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shiningmoonn · 16 days
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i need someone to guide my head against their tcock until it swells so much from underneath their pants that they just pull it out and shove it inside my mouth, face fucking me until they're satisfied.
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fineazzftm · 2 months
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spaghetti-chronicles · 2 months
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Is there anything I should do before I start T? Is there anything you wished you did before you started? I’m really excited and I want to know if I can “prepare” in any way beforehand. I’ve already been working out a bit which obviously isn’t a requirement or given but it’s been something to help me cope with waiting I guess.
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It’s been 7 years since I told everyone I am not a trans man and that it was probably just a phase for me.. but i still think about it almost daily and can’t seem to truly be ok with it. I wonder if I would’ve been happier if I had stayed with my identity and started hormones…and I wonder if I’ll never know or one day I’ll turn my whole life 180 degrees and shock everyone and myself…and I’m scared of what that would look like and if it would even be worth it.
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tylerromeo · 2 years
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So on the 2nd of April 2021 I had my egg cracking moment and I realised I was Trans.
I came out to my partner and started documenting my transition.
Not much has really happened other than a haircut, mens clothing and packers/stp shennanigans to be honest!
My partner has been super supportive and we both now identify as gay men which is so fulfilling and validating.
Today marks the start of a pretty emotional and special journey from past me to the true me.
Today I started Testosterone!!
I honestly felt like I'd never reach this moment when I first came out and hormones felt like the scariest thing on the planet.
They still do to be quite fair haha
Its been a really emotional day, I didn't think that I'd be sad or angry or anxious saying goodbye to the "girl"who kept me alive for over 30 years.
I thought I hated her but turns out I love her just as much as I love the real me because she is and always will be a part of who I am today.
I feel like this part isn't talked about enough. People are always like "I knew straight away Testosterone was the right decision"
But that has not bene the case for me. I struggled with it for many reasons namely my family, my singing voice and feeling like an imposter!
Its been a really hard journey and some days I'm 100% sure and others I'm full of doubt and I think that's okay and I think that's normal because it's a massive decision and a massive change and that can be scary.
So if you're worried that maybe you're not trans because you feel this way, be gentle with yourself, allow yourself to process and grieve in a gentle loving way because the person your trying so desperately to get rid of is the person that kept you alive until you could be your true self
It makes sense that it is an emotional time even though it's what you know you need, it isn't just a simple choice for many reasons and woth that comes a sense of anxiety and fear.
Live in that moment and feel those things. You'll know when you're ready...trust yourself
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queerism1969 · 2 months
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genderqueerdykes · 1 month
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if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.
it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.
people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.
it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.
i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.
take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are
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prince-ashitaka · 10 months
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Lets create a house where yelling means we’re having fun. When you hear a door slam you know it was accidentally pulled with too much strength, not slammed out of anger. When there is silence, it is Contentment, not another passive aggressive fight. The dog is no longer barking to protect, he simply just wants the cats to play with him. Let’s create a safe, warm environment that makes you feel like you can breathe, not hold your breath. Let’s stomp on the eggshells we use to tip toe on. Together we will make this house into a home. And welcome all with open arms into this kind and loving space.
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yaoiboypussy · 13 days
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“Trans men are pressured to be feminine” “No trans men are pressured to be masculine”
Actually I think trans men are pressured to be cis and that no matter what way we present some cis people will treat us poorly. I think it’s weird how y’all act like transphobes treat any trans men well.
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halogen2 · 15 days
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looking through the digital transgender archive again
"10 Most Damaging Myths About Transmen and FTMs" by Rupert Raj from March 20, 1999
10 Most Damaging Myths about Transmen and FTMS
10. All FTMS come from the lesbian community, and after transition are heterosexual. (that is, attracted to women) 9. Transsexualism/transgenderism can be "cured" by psychotherapy. Transsexual men are really just lesbians. 8. FTMs did not exist until after World War II, with the advent of hormone therapy and sex reassignment surgery. 7. Female-to-Males are far rarer than Male-to-Female transsexuals. 6. Transmen seek to live as and be recognized as male in order to obtain male privilege and economic advantages. 5. All transman exhibit stereotypically male behavior and want to be as macho as possible. 4. Taking testosterone makes Female-to-Male transsexuals much more aggressive and angry than they were before taking hormones. 3. All FTMs want genital reconstruction as the driving force of their transition. (not necessarily the social aspects that go along with masculinity) 2. Historically, all women only chose to live as men to pursue careers that were otherwise unattainable to them, to seek economic opportunities, or to justify lesbian relationships. 1. Transmen are really just butch lesbians who change sex to justify same-sex relationships or to avoid harassment.
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shiningmoonn · 17 days
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hard in public. (my jeans have wrinkles and it looks like i have a dick)
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fineazzftm · 26 days
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nekhcore · 3 months
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HEY YOU!
Yeah, you! Are you trans? Do you like reading books? Or watching movies?
Do you like media about trans men/transmasculine characters but don't know where to find it?
That's sooo crazy because I have this little spreadsheet I'm working on where I'm trying to document all media with protagonists/major characters who are FTM or transmasculine.
The spreadsheet currently has 300+ entries spread across the following categories:
Books
Manga
Memoirs and non-fiction
Movies
TV Shows
Graphic novels / Comics
Webcomics
Audio dramas
Books and movies are also sorted by:
Which character is trans (MC, love interest, antagonist, etc)
If the trans character is POC
The trans character's sexuality (Because I saw lots of transhet guys sad about only being able to find gay romances)
If the author/actor is also trans (if we know for sure)
It's free to use, and free to add to as well! Editing permissions are on, and I check on the spreadsheet every now and then to make sure everything is in order and to clean up.
If you know something that isn't on the list, please add it! You don't have to fill in every single column, but fill it to the best of your abilities.
If you don't want to use the big ass long link below, you can also use: bit.ly/FTM-protags
I made this because I want it to be a community resource. So even if you're not a trans guy or transmasculine person, please reblog!
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gay-----pisces2 · 2 months
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its kind of sad that if I, a trans man, decide by my own free will to wear a dress, I have to specifically tell people that I'm not detransitioning. Trans men, boys, mascs, and neutrals can wear feminine shit. Just because we want to be fem doesn't make us suddenly not trans or faking it or whatever the fuck else.
we get to decide how we identify.
not the clothes we wear.
and not you.
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shadowyarcadetale · 2 months
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I know you wanna see what’s under my panties you're just a little shy 🤭
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