stay away from people who make you think that the basic necessities of a healthy relationship is asking for too much.

I had to learn that surrendering doesn't mean becoming completely passive. it's just understanding that one path will lead to another eventually.

ID: a set of 24 images in 12 pairs. each has one image of the listed bee and puppycat character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Bee from Bee and Puppycat is a fluxpercifemale, venusaric, apricotcolauric, funwordstimmic, gendertech, eaglenebinvisia, aurastric, aurefeminwayven, genderfae, crystacorum, mechadollic, glowparcadegender, pleonella, interstellexic, aurorastria, honk-yahooic, azurdoxgirl, kawaiiaesic, artsandcraftkiddic, nadeorasmic, pinkorchidale, pirehyacinthale, strawboreamic, paskeishineic, invisplitcookies, invipinkstarpop, invistrawberrybouquet, jeweltoneaesic, retrarcacarpetic, aetherhumanoid, trinketgender, lavendeian, femme4butch praesgirl android who experiences solaic and alterous attraction! Ve uses she/her, ve/ver, and nameself pronouns! Bee has ADHD!

Her roommate/coworker/best friend, Puppycat, is a surturian, malemav, darcutistic, noircolauric, chaotemptic, twistute, lumicattic, catfangic, phantovast, celestipangic, pupurric, moongalamagica, catpawic, pupawic, chaoscatgender, genderstomber, cadalgender, planecreatic, killercatic, dogcatgender, hatebodiment, feralthing, catdogthing alien who rejects the concept of gender! Puppycat prefers he/fang pronouns, but also uses claw/tooth/hiss/howl/mew/ruff and no pronouns! Fang has IED, NPD, hyposensitivity, and low empathy!

Their friend Deckard is a browncolauric, cottagecoric, flaweiaste, genderateau, nillamatchia, sunwinbaken, kittykaomojic, minzolada, inviflowerwater, evenfonssettan, natureserenic, waterlilinvisia, blurostarric, puerillis, morinochegender, genderdullahan, nillamatchia, matchacrumblic, coctagender, domestimasc, trascenby, cálidatierramielgender, queerflorihonic, honeymoogender, colorcomfemasc, herbgardenic, nebularomantic, eucalyptus, abroconsman, veldbitend, sheep rowanian rostroy bat who uses he/him pronouns with strangers, but also uses xi/haz/hy/fir/bon/🍡/🍧/🥮self pronouns with close friends and family! He is autistic and has GAD and dyslexia! Deckard also has apraxia, which is why xi may stutter when xi speaks!

The Cooking Prince is a high futch, princepresentic, boy+, solifemme, pinkcolauric, gendernixie, codemoguyic, femprettyboy, domestimasc, pastogender, honeybungender, genderflorect, personaglamourous, chocoaltepanic, idolbunnic, evildritchean, bastardfreak, princesticker, prinstarcoric, hyperpopticglitchic, cinnacoffeecakegender, sugarcookiegender, blueberrybunnycoric, fraisitôme, roiamascaesic, florfraisian, bunfettic, goldensyrupiceix, pricrushcore, pomegranate lavenian stag who uses che/flan/su(gar)/bun/eth/muse/synth/ro/grand/frill/straw(berry)/ast/🥐/🫐/🍓/🥧/🍰/🍪/👑/🎤/💎/🏰self pronouns! Su is hyperempathetic, has OLD, and has an obvious crush on Deckard!

Deckard and the Prince have a love-hate relationship, but date after becoming friends!

Cas (Deckard's twin sister) is a digisomnic, bronzecolauric, webgender, intechline, rarifem, mascrobovoic, fivitchgender, sleuthlexic, tekneo, roilaric, computraimasckoric, machidefunct, wirecoric, digiminalwebic, webgamean, techdependic, detectivic, 404techdiffic, detectivelike, HTML-gender, heathrilexic, chillbodiment, digirealgender, digitalexic, androidgender, 🌐💾emojic, winter butch, soft butch, techtum azirlesmasc sophian who uses jhey/xy/fizz/.txt/ai/byte/c#//py/comp/key/.zip/🔍/💿/♠️/🖱️self, and it/its auxiliary pronouns. Zip is codekin and techkin, has StPD and quit wrestling once zip realised zip had haphephobia, and loves computer programming! Cas is in a QPR with jheir laptop, and has a crush on Toast!

Toast is a stone femme, royalcolauric, genderluccuve, sportyaesic, gnarlexic, bloodynoseeuphoric, cenisolar, genderamnient, mascgirl, girlbeast, lovefeminine, pridebruisic, gremlinvior, callistoan pan straight who uses she/burn/bruise/fight/🔪/💥/💢/💄🩸/🩹/🗡️self pronouns! She is hyperverbal and autistic! 🗡️ loves wrestling, lacks an understanding of social norms, and often refers to herself in the third person! Toast and Merlin are married!

Merlin is a tiredlexic marigoldcolauric romeric-solian man who is demiverbal, neurodivergent and uses he/him, xai/xais, and 🕛/🕛s pronouns! He is in love with his wife, Toast!

Crispin is a fuchsean, mosscolauric, dndpocelestial, clownspikegender, clownhonum, sillybodiment, genderandaph, galesensic, méchalounic, carnevalean, sillyclownstatuecoric, clownboy, mecvier, creepysillic, phoshifaelucial, genderantrute, sochrosiale, jestericbell, clownslushic, clownamusic, phosclownose, weirdkidpartyic, clowncocky, clowngender, spiralweirdo, who uses, ip/h✧/boing/honk/bright/cae/joke/trick/mime/🃏/🌧/🤡/🎈/🎪/🎡/🔴self pronouns! Pip is autistic, schizophrenic, and has PTSD, DID, and AvPD! Crispin and Bee no longer date, but still remain close friends!

Howard is a transfem man, meteorian, amaranthcolauric, flamboric, redorchidale, boyfemme, cafdreamian, daffodilic, kenocafeic, fogcatgender, lococoile, noblerosclath, cathypic, starpretgender, genderfaenan, genderlotul, creamcoffian, cafedreernightaesic, fiaminix, miafinic, fiamianix, feinflambelle, alloaro, rowanian Opossum who exclusively uses he/him and she/her pronouns. He has NPD, OCPD, and bipolar disorder.

Tim is a mascneunonmaininic, skycolauric, soothic, lexicatic, gendernoies, calicracklic, meowrested, rainsleepy, genderkaimi, chatneq, milkcattic, soportigue, felisbibsomnian, solporcat, flutresolia, eudaicatic, flaweiaste, nebnocto, feliscosmic, lovelazic, gatomiric, lumisoulꓹ caliadorcakic, hypnorine, faunpup, starraindreamic, dreamsweeica, nystramasc, ngeflymoonica, lunadrowsine, restoreplushic, tranquilpluvic, pracapulidium, lococoile, sleepinertiac, mellic, epuisetristic, catzzzgender, starfuzzblanketic, calisillikit, /⁠ᐠ⁠｡⁠ꞈ⁠｡⁠ᐟ⁠\emotic, lazycatic, starrykittic, spacecloudgender, lexefatigueic, jusleeplyrica, amuzigender, nicogender, sleepyboy, fogcatgender, mascbeing nonbinary trans man who uses lolli/marsh/kei/h⭐/co(zy)/fuz/miau/dream/zzz/eep/drow/sof/kit/puff pronoun! Co is catkin and cathearted, non-verbal, autistic and has social anxiety, narcolepsy, and chronic fatigue! Tim is an agere AAC user!

Wesley is an sagecolauric, 34.0522nica, genderflorect, genderhollisy, oceawilder, auramaric, sansolramare, fantômeoceanic, ocishsungender, tropicaesic, oceamooncraftic, natmarinic, bergrusticarian, comfevoidic, fallistaric, okeapanthgender, invifishviridis, inviriwave, invililypadmollis, domuderelic, oceansunsetic, invidigitank, whalefalloceanitrum, invipiblujelly, coolbodiment, chillbodiment, sunsetian, mareaurais, aolibelai, meowstimmic, coraleagender, nrosesgender, seacoframistic, doxian, litugender, autiquoirose, veldiromantic bisexual, oceanthing uses zhe/cor/mae/oce/scy/sea/drip/bay/aqua/bleu/fin/shell/squid/🐋/🪼/🫧/🌊/🌀/🦪/🐚self and any other ocean/beach-themed pronouns! Zhe is autistic and has dyscalculia, alexithymia, and ADHD!

Space Outlaw is/was a lunarmale, rainottalunaquic, multiversan, planecreatic, celestiversic, arvilien, noxlibic, spatilost, galaxionic, royalspaceasic, phantovast, constelavonini, stelocus, inastellaric, constellestial, intrusicosmic, astierreda, blurostarric, inastellaric, viraethesque, cometcrystalballna, voidnevow, genderproster, moongalamagica alien who uses he/xer/stel/comet/orion/vey/noir/loss/🌑/🌒/🌓/🌔/🌕/🌖/🌗/🌘/🌌/🌠/🌟 pronouns! He has/had IED, NPD, and low empathy!

For 🌖☄️ anon!

interstellexic!

interstellexic-

a gender that is/is related to the word ‘interstellar’!

[Image ID: A flag with eleven equally-sized horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are deep grey, royal blue, golden, magenta, purple, black, purple, magenta, golden, royal blue, and deep grey. There is a black box with a vertical pole of the same color through its center in the middle of the flag. End ID.]

term and flag by me, requested by no one :3

Interstellexic is a Xenogender. Interstellexic is a gender with a strong connection to the word "interstellar". Interstellexic is a gender with a strong association with the word "interstellar". "Interstellar" is a word that means "occurring or situated between stars". The term "interstellexic" was coined by mogai-sunflowers. An Interstellexic Flag was created by mogai-sunflowers. Interstellexic Folks are Incredible! Be Kind to Interstellexic Folks!

People that only liked you when you were insecure don't deserve to experience your growth.

I just want to wear art. As much art as possible. I want to live, breathe, eat, sleep ART

I've accepted that I am a deep, passionate person. I love, think, and feel deep. Everything means everything to me. it's not something I can turn off but I have tried to suppress. I am absolutely bored by small talk conversations, yet I get over-excited about things that excite me that could seem so simple and meaningless to others. It's taken almost 25 years to understand that is how I'm supposed to live my life. I've had people pick me apart for being this way but I'm no longer treating that part of myself as if it's a flaw. just because you can't allow yourself to be happy, inspired and in love with life doesn't mean I should do the same

There's a lot of power in drawing a creative idea out and then making it happen

I wholeheartedly believe in luck. Lucky moments to me are like little treats from the universe to keep you enthused while you work towards your main mission in life.

Yes your family may have criticized you growing up and taught you that everything that made you who you truly are was wrong and unsafe but you're not that little kid anymore. You do not have to suppress who you truly are anymore. It is safe for you to express yourself now. You must grant yourself that permission to be you again, don't wait on your parents to do it for you.

Meet the new me: The girl that meets her own needs.

(Link to full blog post below)

....The new Lexie is no longer in the business of begging for love, consideration, loyalty and honesty from others. She truly and whole heartedly believes she is worthy and deserving of exactly what she sees for herself in life, the things that makes her heart flutter, within all aspects and areas of her life. She feels people out before blindly trusting them and devoting her loyalty as a form of self-protection. She understands she is worthy of boundaries. She asks "is this/are they right for me?" Instead of hoping others find her worthy enough. she can see and accept people for who they are and where they are instead of getting caught up over "potential." She doesn't hesitate to make the decision to reject people that don't align with her even if she can understand their story. she no longer accepts breadcrumbs. She no longer tones herself down to make others feel comfortable about themselves. She doesn't tolerate people who are unsure about her. She allows people to miss out on her, without feeling she needs to convince, fuss or beg for their love. she is turned off by people who find pleasure in making women feel they need to perform for their love or view us as only sexual objects. she no longer prays, hopes or wishes for people to see her value. She is content with having people lay in the beds that they made no matter how much she loved them or how convincing the sob story is. She understands people make mistakes but she no longer accepts words as change. She understands that she is worthy of respect & to be treated like royalty by potential lovers. She only dates people who admire her ambition, creativity and beauty, not intimidated or jealous by it. She doesn't date people who are content with watching her carry all of the weight of life and relationship herself. She doesn't associate with people whose source of confidence stems from how inadequate they can make another person feel. She can see straight through hollow egos. She is more than her body and treats it with the upmost love and care. Even her relationships that turn out to just be a "fling" are with people who value their bodies and have an equal level of self-respect within themselves as well and still are interested in investing in her growth & expansion in some way shape or form. Community d*ck gives her nightmares. Getting her in bed now takes a certain amount of effort and time to be put in that makes anyone that complains or objects look like complete jokes to her. She still doesn't take it personally because she understands it is only an automatic response for humans to cringe at or demand an explanation for things they cannot afford at times. She is no longer a personal emotional regulator for people who don't consider her feelings after they've regulated themselves again. She understands how important it is to prioritize herself. She loves being around people who are hungry for growth and expansion. Who share the same fear of wasting their potential in this lifetime. She is independent, a boss, an exceptional visionary and artist, intelligent, lover of god, a leader with a mind of her own. She understands that her worth is not defined by anyone or thing outside of herself. she is unbreakable, resilient, determined, and driven by her passion. She can alchemize the hardships and blockages encountered in her life into beautiful art. She is powerful. She isn't afraid of darkness, she instead embraces it when it comes because she understands that it is here to teach her. She recognizes that love comes in many ways. She is okay being alone with herself. She isn't afraid to bet on and invest in herself. she honors her self-expression wholeheartedly. She does not make art for others but for herself to share with others. Her integrity, values, and boundaries cannot be bought out. She is careful before she participates in things that would cause her to dishonor herself. She is rich in love, spirit and creativity. She trusts herself above all else because She knows she is capable of meeting her own needs and can be to herself the lover of her dreams.

Always always always remind yourself of how far you've come.

This will find you when you need it 💫

journal prompt:

what outcomes have you become most attached to?

what fear is fueling this attachment?

I have a podcast episode where I work through this energy for myself.

it was a very late night ramble

Is it true that you don't really start to know yourself until you're about 30?