My Pinterest feed keeps showing me these beds now. Cribs are cute, but these are soooo cozy. Definitely enough room for a CG to crawl in a cuddle up with their little for story time.
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You're still doing okay as a regressor if you... 🐥 🧡
💫 · are usually upset or in a negative situation when you regress
🧃 · don't know what age you regress to
🥞 · act mainly as a caregiver but still regress
💫 · have done things you regret when regressed
🧃 · cannot control your regression
🥞 · are mainly a regressor but are also a caregiver
💫 · feel like a burden for being disabled and needing extra or specific care
🧃 · are worried to tell people about your regression
🥞 · can't really tell the difference between when you regress and when you don't
🧃 · are afraid of getting or don't want a caregiver due to trauma
💫 · do things considered "big" or "adult" when regressed
🥞 · are an alter who can't tell if you're a regressor or a syskid / ageslider
🧃 · deal with intrusive and un-childlike thoughts
you are always deserving of comfort, safety, and a happy regression 𓂃⊹
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Hey little one!
Oh, you had a bad day? I'm really sorry to hear that.
There's no need to apologize, sweetheart. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be upset, just let it all out.
You wanna hug baba? That's right, it's okay.
Look, baba got your favorite plushie! Let's hug them too, as tight as we can, yeah?
Do you want baba to put more pressure on your body? Wrap you up tight in my arms?
You don't have to be sorry, it's okay. I love you. I love you so much.
Thank you for trusting me. I'll hold you till you feel better.
I'm not going anywhere, I'm here for you.
Baba is always going to be here for you, darling.
You're so lovable. You're worth the world. You're my world, little one.
I'm here with you. Yes, and with plushie.
Oh, was that a giggle? No? It's okay, you can giggle and still be sad. You can giggle and still cry. Feelings are complicated. But we got this.
You got this. And I got you.
You're so brave. I'm proud of you. Dealing with all those big feelings.
Baba is so proud!
.゚。.・.*.゚☆❗only interact if your blog is SFW❗☆ ゚.*.・. 。゚.
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Appreciation for all the regressors who have had bad experiences during or for their regression ♡
- those who've been taken advantage of while regressing
- people who dislike regressing but still do it involuntarily
- those who have lost friends or relationships due to their regression
- people who have been discouraged from getting caregivers due to trauma or past experiences
- those who are reminded of their trauma when regressing
- people who regress to mourn for a childhood they could've had
- those who dislike regressing because it makes them more "weak"
You're all valid and loved 🧡
~ mama mia 🦩
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I'd like to talk about something that's been on my mind a lot recently, and it's something that I've been meaning to bring up.
Littles! Stop taking advantage of CGs!
I'm tired of being taken advantage of by littles who only want someone to coo at them and say nice things and someone who they can dump their trauma on randomly (this is not in relation to my last post. I don't mind if people come to me for advice or for a place to vent, but I need them to ask first!). I want someone who wants a 3 dimensional relationship! Where we are friends first and then we move on to being in a agere relationship. But I get so many littles who claim to be looking for a caregiver, but they only ever want to talk while they are little, and aren't interested in taking it slow and building that very special relationship between carer and little.
I'm not some person who has infinite energy, I'm not some person who is a fanfic where I'm always ready to listen to your worries and anxieties, I'm not this flat, 1 dimensional person who can fit your fantasies of a cg.
I'm a human too, who wants a relationship with the littles I meet /p. Please, littles, please stop taking advantage of online cgs. We aren't your fictional story book that you can leave and come back when you feel like it. We have feelings too, and it's not fair that you play on our natural caring nature.
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🌼 Caregiving Tips 🌼
For my first time caregivers who are completely lost on how to start caring for their little one 💛
🌼 Research! Read as much as you can about age regression whenever you can. The more you can understand how regression works and what it is, the better you can support your kiddo.
🌼 Read Safe for Work fanfiction on regression. It can give you lots of ideas on how to care for and talk to your kiddo when they're regressed. Ask them if they read works on any specific fandom and try looking it up yourself to get an idea of what they like.
🌼 Read blogs on Tumblr and stories on Wattpad for regression advice too. Lots of information is written by regressors and caregivers themselves.
🌼 Ask lots of questions. Your little one's probably already established how their regression works for them so asking what that looks like can be super helpful to you. (Examples: How small do you feel when you regress? Or What do you like to do when your regressed?)
🌼 Your kiddo may feel a little apprehensive at first so patience and lots of reassurance will do wonders. Remind them that you want to be there and don't rush the process of including this new dynamic in your relationship. It will take time.
🌼 Encourage their regression! As often as you can, do things that encourage their headspace. For instance, asking if they want to color with you or watch a cartoon. The more you encourage their little habits, the more comfortable they'll feel around you.
🌼 Don't talk down to them. There's a balance when it comes to talking to regressors. You want to baby them (unless they ask otherwise), but not in a way that's patronizing.
🌼 Be curious. Ask them simple questions and be interested in what their doing/telling you. Most kiddos love to explain things and feel like they're showing you something cool, so it'll make them very happy to know that you're paying attention to them.
🌼 Try not to be harsh. Most feel like harsh discipline and a firm hand is the best way to handle a regressor, but most kiddos listen better to a gentle reminder than a harsh reprimand. So be patient with them, treat them as though their learning everything for the first time.
🌼 Learn their little habits. Lots of times, kiddos don't want to ask to be babied because they can feel embarrassed or like a burden, so they'll give little hints in hopes you'll notice them that way. And it can be something as small as being a little more clingy, to pouting and whining over something that seems minor.
🌼 Become their guardian. Check in with them often, ask if they ate, help them put their seat belt on and remind them to pick up after themselves, little things like that. Some regressors even love to have a certain set of rules laid out for them to follow (or break).
🌼 Avoid ignoring or verbally wounding your regressor. Sometimes emotions can become much more difficult to process when regressed, so a passing comment or action done in frustration can cause deep wounds to reopen, so try to think twice before acting.
🌼 Don't cross boundaries! Just because you're the caregiver, don't abuse your authority and force them to do anything their uncomfortable with.
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