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ChillyChive
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The response to "ace people are just virgins who can't get laid!" Shouldn't be "ace people can still have sex!" but instead " being a virgin isn't a bad thing."
The response to "aro people are just heartless freaks!" Shouldn't be "aro people can still feel love!" And instead be "not feeling love or other emotions doesn't make you a bad person."
Instead of pushing the idea that aspec people can be "normal like allos" we should instead be trying to normalize aspec experiences. Yes aspec people can be normal because aspec identities are normal. Some aros fall in love. some aces have sex. but they should not be the only valid aspec experiences. We should not use these experiences to make the aspec identity more palatable to amatonormativity and allos.
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Listen, I'm a shipper. Shipping is fun. Exploring relationships between the silly characters I like is fun, and to me, that includes shipping.
HOWEVER, as an aroace person who started valuing both my friendships and my ability to be alone without feeling like shit even more as I learnt about amatonormativity, I just need to say:
Can we please stop throwing around phrases like "There's no platonic explanation for this" or "They're too close, they can't be just friends" when talking about ships we like and analyzing the reasons why we think they should have been canon?
Can we please stop acting as if romance is some sort of "end goal" and that if two characters who have some form of chemistry don't get in a canon romantic relationship, then their potential was wasted?
Can we stop assuming that characters who end up single will automatically feel alone and miserable?
Like, can we stop normalizing amatonormativity in fandoms? I know it's difficult because those phrases and thought processes are very normalized, but can we try?
Also, some people will find this controversial, but yes, this includes not screaming "Are you homophobic???" At anyone who doesn't like a popular, implied or even canon queer ship. Yes, some people who don't like the ship will be homophobic, but some of us really just want more representation of single main characters who actually stay single, as well as representation of qprs, strong platonic bonds, people who live well by themselves/in solitude and so much other stuff that we often don’t get due to the world kind of being obsessed with romance (and sex tbh, but that's not the point of this post).
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HOLD TF UP how is no one talking about the fact that the Elves have literally normalized the split-attraction model?? Heck, Tyril and Kaya have their own version of a QPR. Plus, the fact that Kilvali can mean either romance or friendship, puts both relationships on the same level of emotional intimacy!
None of that amatonormative belief that "romantic relationships are deeper than friendships" or that stupid phrase "more than friends". None of the "romance and sex are important in a marriage" crap. Hey humans, can we please adopt this stuff? BOLAS elven culture is SO aspec friendly its insane.
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“They never left the desert” “they never left dogwarts” I’m still stuck in Pearl’s tower from double life
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With the Reddit 3rd party app crackdown and the ongoing horseshit Elon Musk is pulling with "X", I realize a lot of people here might be pretty new. So I put together a quick and easy guide for using Tumblr for anyone new who might need it.
Tumblr was made by David Karp and we call him Daddy around these parts (^///^)
You are not safe from fandom-gif attacks ( •̀ ω •́ )✧
Speaking of fandoms, the tumblr fandoms are always ready to grab their [object] and go to war against the Beliebers ╰(*°▽°*)╯
The only safe refuge from fandom tumblr is with hipster tumblr. If you can get a cool alt-girl to take you under her wing, you might be safe... for now (●'◡'●)
You will watch the first episode of Supernatural... and then you're part of the Winchester family. (Or if you skip right to season 4, we don't blame you. It's where Destiel starts (*/ω＼*))
This is not a glomp-free zone ☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆
Use missing e. It's the only way to make Tumblr useable on Internet Explorer (this is the most popular browser and you're probably using it right now) :-D
Our only adult-supervision is John Green... and even then does that REALLY count as supervision? DFTBA! φ(゜▽゜*)♪
Just this once, everyone lives. It's bigger on the inside. Elementary, my dear Watson.
If you see Misha Collins staring at you, the polite response is "Saving people, hunting things, the family business." O.O
I might lose followers for this, but this blog supports gay rights, and yours should too (14 gifs of Sherlock and The Hobbit)
Tumblr will teach you more about the world than you'll ever learn in school. ○( ＾皿＾)っ
Tread carefully... we have teh yaoiz O.o. Oh you don't know what that means? Well let's just say... it's full of lemons here.
If you see Hannibal Lector in a flower crown, tell him it looks very nice. His boyfriend Will Graham made it for him. (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)
Do not enter the dog park. The dog park will not harm you.
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Ethubs observation of the day... something about how Etho's main formula for social interaction is mirroring (relatable tbh): him trying to match Ren's rentheking theatre kid vibe. or reflecting Joel's obsessing to the point that they're locked in a loop forever and ever. taunting Gem the same way she taunts him.
But he doesn't do it so much to Bdubs. he'll play the foil instead: like Shade-E-E's delivery boy, "Doesn't get easier than you", "Is it a happy marriage? / Impulse still treating you right?", or TNT minecart catch. And all I can think is Bdubs insisting, "They don't get you like I do." I think maybe that's true.
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title: pull me from my grave (and breathe life into my body).
warning(s): necromancy, body horror, gothic themes, self mutilation (for magic I swear)
chapter(s): 1/1
relationship: scar/grian
summary:
“So let me get this straight. You’re telling me that you felt something tug on your magic, followed it… and just accidentally summoned me.” He deadpans.
Scar nods in return, “That about sums it up, yup!” He then follows it with a shrug. “I grabbed that metal feather that I’m assuming now is your’s, and it seems like the blood circle on my hand must’ve been what did it.”
“I can’t tell if you’re careless or just plain insane,” the demon comments, continuing to stare at him.
“It’s part of my charm, actually,” Scar says with a little wink.
— scar summons a demon. he didn’t mean to. the accidental summoning may have more consequences than he realizes.
read on ao3 here!
hello hello!! I’ve been working on this all week and I am :D very excited to post !! it’s something a bit experimental in terms of writing style, so I’m a tiny bit nervous but mostly excited! I’d love to hear thoughts if you enjoy :3 but new au !!!! :D everybody loves a bit of necromancer scar, eh? 👀
reblogs do more than likes!
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